Holiday Plans, Wardrobes, and Photos

Are your holiday plans and outfits coming together? It’s almost time to mail cards and photos to loved ones! This is one holiday tradition for which I adore being being on the receiving end! I love getting photo cards of our family and friends.

I missed sending cards last year, although they were ordered and even in our home! I just ran out of time with some unexpected travel in November,  and some health issues with children, complete with a couple of ER or urgent care runs. While visiting with friends at a large family gathering this summer, I had several loved ones register formal complaints that they missed hearing from our family. I hope not to disappoint again this year!  I should probably get planning, ordering photos, and writing our letter!

I also think sending cards is a tradition that creates some valued memories for families, and documents seasons in families’ lives.

A favorite memory of one family photo session we did was one outside on a red couch, and then out on railroad tracks. We were being really silly and it ended up being so fun during a rough season for our family. It was a happy bonding moment!

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best-photo-memory-ever-2013Another memory is of when our first daughter was three months old. Her three older brothers were in a phase of acting like they were always chasing squirrels, and their behavior was unreliable being that they were all seven years and under. I was especially organized on the photo day that year. The boys were neatly dressed, hair combed, shoes on, and buckled into the van. Alone, the feat of buckling all the kids in the van and loading all the belongings took fifteen minutes. I had Lady L’s outfit on a hanger with a plastic bag over it to protect it, and her first black patent leather shoes, ruffle socks, and soft pink bow hair band were in her diaper bag. We even arrived to the photo session twenty minutes early so I could nurse and dress the baby with time to spare.

As I went to dress the baby, the boys were distracting and being…er…naughty. I couldn’t find the cute little black velour legging pants that went under the denim ruffle tunic. I was getting stressed and panicked as the photographer was now calling our turn. I had been organized and early! How could this happen??

I packed every one up, we retraced our steps looking for where we could have dropped the leggings, and we went back to the van. No velour legging pants. I had a dilemma. Go ahead and take the photo because three out of four fully dressed children is good, only needing to retuck their shirts back in is easy, and we were there.

We were there! On time! Early! Organized!

I didn’t want adequate.

I wanted excellent.

This was my baby girl’s first Christmas! Of course the photo had to be perfect!

I rescheduled the photo shoot and took the kids home for lunch and a nap. I cried the whole way home.

As I walked into our kitchen to make lunch, there, lying on the kitchen floor were the black velour legging pants, sized for 3 month olds.

Later that afternoon, we returned to the Sears photo studio for some really sweet pictures of the pink rosebud and her three cowlicky, but admiring brothers.

I have to admit that it is really fun to look back at a difficult season of adjustment, and see how far we’ve come since then. I wouldn’t trade a moment of the parenting journey.


So what are you doing for the upcoming holidays? Do you take family photos? Do you wear matching outfits and send photo cards to all your friends and family? Do you send a favorite moment from the year?

Do share with your family and friends, however you decide to do it.


If you are looking to coordinate your wardrobe with some beautiful and affordable hair jewelry, I imagine that the new November Lilla Rose releases will delight you! There are several color schemes and the holiday designs are sure to please. There are also some returns of styles from past years if you missed out on them!

Check out this video with the holiday bobby pins, hair bands, hair sticks, and u-pins. Following the video are the new releases of flexi clips and the Flexi of the Month.

Which of these new Limited Releases will be your favorite go to for your outfit?

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November Flexi of the Month,North Star, and its companion bobby pin set Starburst.

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Early release holiday flexi clips-Prancer in brass and nickel, Silver Fir, Emerald Joy, Crimson Joy, Holly Leaf, and the returning JOY clip.

Have a blessed Thanksgiving, friends.

With thankfulness and gratitude,

Deb

After Bulk Food Shopping?

Every Sunday after attending Sunday church services, the next question from the children on Sunday’s drive home is “What is for lunch today?” I have been doing a childcare job on Fridays that has left me sapped of energy. Often I have craft/vendor shows on Saturday, and when we get home from those, Lady L and I review our inventory and consider together our restocking order. Sunday lunch and dinner is an after thought more often than not, and I’m dead dog tired.

But, after bulk food shopping, walking the Amish community, canoeing a few miles down the St. Joseph River, making a decision that brings peace, and getting true days of rest, when they asked what was for lunch, I had answers. I had a plan and a menu ready to be prepared.

Bulk cooking and freezer meals are often my solution for busy weeks of homeschooling, networking, craft/vendor events, and for dealing with a husband and two sons whose work schedules are inconsistent and often inconvenient. We still manage to eat dinner mostly together almost every night, even if dinner is at 8 pm. Meal planning allows us maximum flexibility with our schedule, we can cook together, and doesn’t leave us stressed and scrambling for meals.

Because we had purchased our favorite Amish cheddar cheese, everyone was excited for homemade macaroni and cheese with steamed broccoli on Sunday afternoon.  While it was baking, I whipped up Monday and Wednesday’s nights dinners in a 16 quart pot with the following family favorite soup recipe.  There was even some left over for lunches or the freezer for a night when there are fewer of us home for dinner.


Sausage, Bean, Sweet Potato, Kale Soup

10 cups homemade chicken broth

1 large diced onion

 Fresh minced garlic to taste

2 lbs of Amish sweet Italian sausage diced

3 large peeled, diced sweet potatoes

2 tsp. sea salt

2 tsp. black pepper

1 tsp. chopped, dried rosemary

1 tsp. sage

1 tsp. thyme leaves

2 cups dried cannellini beans, cooked

32 oz fresh or frozen chopped kale (I prefer frozen)

Place all in a 16 qt pot, add water to about an inch from the top of the pot. Bring to a boil, and then simmer until all vegetables are soft.  Add white wine to taste–I used 2 cups. Cook for about 20 minutes more. Serve with homemade whole grain bread.

On Monday afternoon, I baked fresh ground whole wheat bread, which we ate fresh from the oven with our soup and with Amish butter. Delicious!

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Ten loaves of fresh ground whole wheat bread fresh out of the oven…well…nine of loaves of bread because one is almost all eaten.


I prepared two meals worth of the topping for Stuffed Sweet Potatoes using a recipe from Against All Grain. This is another family favorite. (I baked the sweet potatoes on the nights we ate those, and just reheated the topping mixture.)

And, I prepared two meals of Spaghetti Squash lasagna, inspired during a Mattawan Business Association and community farmer’s market end of season dinner. The squash was from a local farmer.


Spaghetti Squash Lasagna

3 large spaghetti squash halved, seeded, and baked til soft. Scrape the meat of the squash into spaghetti strings and add to a large bowl. Add 15 oz skim ricotta cheese, 12 oz small curd low fat cottage cheese, two eggs, and parsley. Stir til well mixed. Divide into two 15×12 pans. Spoon homemade spaghetti sauce with turkey burger over squash and cheese mixture. Top with Parmesan and Mozzarella cheeses. Bake at 350° for about an hour or until cheese is melted and golden brown. Each pan serves 6-8.


While all that was simmering, baking, or we were eating, I had 4 cups of black beans simmering in the crock pot for another family favorite of Black Beans and Lime Cilantro Rice. This reheats and freezes well. It’s also a great leftover for the nights hubby or sons are working late and need to take a meal with them.


Crock Pot Black Beans and Cilantro Lime Rice

My own adaptations from recipe found on Our Everyday Dinners.

32 oz dry black beans

8 cups homemade/concentrated chicken broth

8 cups water

1 whole large onion diced

1 large scoop of jarred garlic (we use a serving spoon heaping)

Salt and pepper—large pinch of each

Put all in 7 qt crockpot on high for 4-6 hours or low 8+ hours. Stir often and add water as needed til tender. Then add

1 7 oz can green chilies

1 28-32 oz can diced tomatoes

2 tablespoons white vinegar

4 tablespoons brown sugar

2 teaspoons cayenne pepper

2 teaspoons cumin

Stir and heat til hot and bubbly. Serve over cilantro lime brown rice, and top as desired with avocado, sour cream (we actually used Greek yogurt), or salsa.

Cilantro Lime Rice

Prepare 6 cups of brown rice in a rice cooker according to rice cooker instructions. Mix with dried cilantro to taste (I used about 2-3 palm fulls) and ~8 TBL lime juice. YUM!


This week, having not prepared as well on Sunday, I’ve found myself scrambling just a little bit. I do have a meal plan, but it’s not all prepared in advance. This has caused just a wee bit of stress or later night eating. I plan to remedy this as part of my weekly goal setting routine, as I prefer last week’s meal planning plan far better!

Tonight, though, having made some more homemade chicken broth on Monday night, we get to eat leftover homemade potato chowder topped with some of that amazing Amish cheddar cheese, and whatever bread is left!

Blessings, 

Deb

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The Lilla Rose October customer special ends in just 11 days!

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Taking Time Out For Perspective

This past weekend, Dr. P and I took a date weekend. On Friday, we went to a favorite destination spot in Shipshewana, Indiana. We soaked in Amish farm land, Amish horses and buggies, Amish furniture stores, and the peacefulness of the Amish community. We had lunch at an Amish deli, and dinner at a tourist-y restaurant where we had been given a gift certificate. It serves Amish like buffet style food.

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Bulk food shopping-favorite shopping trip of the year is here!

We logged many steps on our Garmin Vivofits (affiliate link) and got lots of good conversation in as we are trying to gain perspective on some decisions we need to make. Sometimes uninterrupted by children conversations are just less distracting, more productive, and less frustrating.

On Saturday, we went canoeing on the St. Joseph River for about 4.5 miles. It was a cool, windy, but sunny Michigan day, and it was peaceful and quiet. We didn’t get to talk much, but enjoyed doing a project that required us to work together for two uninterrupted hours–paddling until we got to the end of our route.

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Liquid Therapy in Three Rivers, MI is where we rented a canoe.

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“Your hair glistens in the sun. It’s all sparkly.” Hubby stated.

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Dr. P at the helm.

It was enough time for quiet thinking and praying through the decisions about which we’d been talking the day before.

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Prayer time

The Lord makes firm the steps of the one who delights in him; though he may stumble, he will not fall, for the Lord upholds him with his hand. –Psalm 37:23-24

For the eyes of the LORD range throughout the earth to strengthen those whose hearts are fully committed to him…–2 Chronicles 16:9

And hearing God speak.

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The Lord speaks.

I made a big, final decision. It affects our finances, but it affects my physical and mental health more. It affects our home and family life most.

It’s the best decision.

My son, if you accept my words and store up my commands within you, turning your ear to wisdom and applying your heart to understanding—indeed, if you call out for insight and cry aloud for understanding, and if you look for it as for silver and search for it as for hidden treasure, then you will understand the fear of the Lord and find the knowledge of God. For the Lord gives wisdom; from his mouth come knowledge and understanding. He holds success in store for the upright, he is a shield to those whose walk is blameless, for he guards the course of the just and protects the way of his faithful ones. Proverbs 2:1-8

There is peace at the finish line.

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4.5 miles in one hour 50 minutes. Go us! This was a true day of rest.

Blessings,
Deb
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